Life After the Empty Nest: Things to Do in Somerset Hills When the Kids Leave Home
March 20, 2026
March 20, 2026
What Comes Next:
Wondering what’s next after the kids leave home? Discover hobbies, volunteer opportunities, and local activities for empty nesters in the Somerset Hills including Bernardsville, Basking Ridge, and Far Hills.
For many parents, the transition to an empty nest can feel both exciting and a little uncertain. After years of busy schedules, sports practices, and school events, life suddenly slows down.
But here in the Somerset Hills—Bernardsville, Basking Ridge, Far Hills, and the surrounding communities—this stage of life can also open the door to new interests, friendships, and experiences.
For many people in their 50s and 60s, this is the moment to rediscover passions that were once set aside and explore everything our area has to offer.
One of the greatest advantages of living in this area is access to beautiful natural spaces. Whether you enjoy walking, hiking, bird watching, or simply getting outside, the Somerset Hills offers countless options.
Some local favorites include:
• Nature walks and birding programs at the Scherman Hoffman Wildlife Sanctuary
• Strolling through the historic gardens at Cross Estate Gardens
• Walking or biking sections of Natirar, several miles of trails with a scenic section along the river, set in Peapack Gladstone in Somerset county
These spots are ideal for morning walks, meeting friends, or simply enjoying the peaceful landscape that makes the Somerset Hills such a special place to live.
With more time available, many empty nesters find themselves revisiting interests they once loved—or discovering entirely new ones.
Some popular options in the area include:
• Art classes and workshops at local studios such as the Center for Contemp. Art
• Book clubs and speaker events at the Bernardsville Public Library
• Cooking classes and culinary experiences such as those at Pendry Natirar
• Gardening groups such as the Basking Ridge Gardening Club
• Fitness programs designed for adults through the local YMCA
Trying something new can lead to unexpected friendships and a renewed sense of energy.
Many residents in their 50s and 60s say volunteering becomes one of the most rewarding parts of this stage of life.
The Somerset Hills community offers many opportunities to give back, including:
• Supporting local organizations such as the Foodbank
• Mentoring students or helping with youth programs like the one at the YMCA
• Assisting community events and nonprofit initiatives
• Working with organizations that support the community like Heartworks
Volunteering not only strengthens the community but also helps create new social connections.
For some homeowners, this stage also prompts reflection about their home.
After the kids move out, many people find themselves asking questions like:
• Do we still need all this space?
• Is our home easy to maintain?
• Would we enjoy living closer to town, restaurants, or walking trails?
Some choose to stay and update their home for the years ahead. Others begin exploring downsizing options that simplify life while keeping them close to the community they love.
There’s no single right answer—just the opportunity to think intentionally about what the next chapter might look like. Check out my Downsizing guide here to help get you started.
One of the reasons so many people choose to stay in the Somerset Hills long after their children are grown is the quality of life here. Between beautiful open spaces, vibrant small towns, community organizations, and easy access to New York City, this area offers the perfect balance of activity and tranquility.
The empty nest years can be a time of exploration, connection, and new beginnings—and the Somerset Hills is an ideal place to enjoy it.
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